dpolicar asked me, in response to an earlier post where i mentioned moving from not having heterosexual privilege for 24 years to suddenly acquiring some by beginning to date men as well as women: "what do you most notice during the visibly-queer to invisibly-queer transition?." and i told him i'd think about it and make a post ( Read more... )

boy, the morning just zips by when you're insanely busy.

also, i spent the bulk of the time when i could have been at the pride parade sort of watching a soccer game on television while getting explanations of what was going on via IM from an opposite-sex partner. i expect them to show up and take my queer card away any moment now.